Глава 51

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Источники

Предисловие

1. Janet Geringer Woititz, “Co-Dependency: The Insidious Invader of Intimacy,” in Co-Dependency, An Emerging Issue (Hollywood, FL: Health Communications, 1984), 59.

2. Toby Rice Drews, Getting Them Sober (South Plainfield, NJ: Bridge Publishing, 1980), vol.1, xv.

Глава 3

1. Парафраз цитаты Джоан Векслер и Джона Стидлла (преподавателей отделения психиатрической социальной работы Йельского университета), приведенной Колетт Даулинг в книге «Комплекс Золушки» (The Cinderella Complex: Women’s Hidden Fear of Independence (New York: Pocket Books, 1981), 145).

2. Robert Subby, “Inside the Chemically Dependent Marriage: Denial and Manipulation,” in Co-Dependency, An Emerging Issue (Hollywood, FL: Health Communications, 1984), 26.

3. Robert Subby and John Friel, “Co-Dependency: A Paradoxical Dependency,” in Co-Dependency, An Emerging Issue, 31.

4. Al-Anon Family Groups, Al-Anon Faces Alcoholism (New York: Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, 1977).

5. Ал-Анон защищает анонимность своих членов и не ведет никакого официального учета членских данных. Однако Миннеаполисский межгрупповой офис согласен с тем, что эти цифры, вероятно, точны.

6. Terence T. Gorski and Merlene Miller, “Co-Alcoholic Relapse: Family Factors and Warning Signs,” in Co-Dependency, An Emerging Issue, 78.

7. Earnie Larsen; Subby, “Inside the Chemically Dependent Marriage.”

8. Subby and Friel, “Co-Dependency.”

9. Charles L. Whitfield, “Co-Dependency: An Emerging Problem Among Professionals,” in Co-Dependency, An Emerging Issue, 53; Joseph L. Kellerman, The Family and Alcoholism: A Move from Pathology to Process (Center City, MN: Hazelden, 1984).

10. Wayne W. Dyer, Your Erroneous Zones (New York: Funk and Wagnalls, 1976); Theodore I. Rubin with Eleanor Rubin, Compassion and Self-Hate: An Alternative to Despair (New York: David McKay Company, 1975).

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1. Nathaniel Branden, Honoring the Self: Personal Integrity and the Heroic Potentials of Human Nature (Boston: Houghton Mifflin Company, 1983), 162.

2. Dennis Wholey, The Courage to Change (Boston: Houghton Mifflin Company, 1984), 207.

3. Judi Hollis, Fat Is a Family Affair (San Francisco: Harper/Hazelden, 1986), 55.

4. Там же, стр. 53.

5. Robert Subby and John Friel, “Co-Dependency: A Paradoxical Dependency,” in Co-Dependency, An Emerging Issue (Hollywood, FL: Health Communications, 1984), 32.

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1. Эта цитата из раздаточного материала под заглавием «Отстранение», содержащего коллекцию высказываний анонимных участников Ал-Анон.

2. Wayne W. Dyer, Your Erroneous Zones (New York: Funk and Wagnalls, 1976), 89.

3. Al-Anon Family Groups, One Day at a Time in Al-Anon (New York: Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., 1976).

4. Judi Hollis, Fat Is a Family Affair (San Francisco: Harper/Hazelden, 1986), 47.

5. Terence Williams, Free to Care: Therapy for the Whole Family (Center City, MN: Hazelden, 1975).

6. Hollis, Fat Is a Family Affair.

7. Carolyn W., Detaching with Love (Center City, MN: Hazelden, 1984), 5.

8. Lois Walfrid Johnson, Either Way, I Win: A Guide to Growth in the Power of Prayer (Minneapolis: Augsburg, 1979).

9. Эрни Ларсен проводит похожее упражнение на медитацию в конце своих семинаров.

Глава 6

1. William Backus and Marie Chapian, Telling Yourself the Truth (Minneapolis: Bethany Fellowship, 1980).

Глава 7

1. Eda LeShan, “Beware the Helpless,” Woman’s Day, 26 April 1983.

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1. Claude M. Steiner, Scripts People Live (New York: Grove Press, 1974).

2. Там же; Claude M. Steiner, Games Alcoholics Play (New York: Grove Press, 1971) и Claude M. Steiner, What Do You Say After You Say Hello? (New York: Grove Press, 1972).

Глава 9

1. Penelope Russianoff, Why Do I Think I’m Nothing Without a Man? (New York: Bantam Books, 1982); Theodore I. Rubin with Eleanor Rubin, Compassion and Self-Hate; An Alternative to Despair (New York: David McKay Company, 1975), 278.

2. Janet Geringer Woititz, “Co-Dependency: The Insidious Invader of Intimacy,” in Co-Dependency, An Emerging Issue (Hollywood, FL: Health Communications, 1984), 56.

3. Rubin, Compassion, 196.

4. Colette Dowling, The Cinderella Complex: Women’s Hidden Fear of Independence (New York: Pocket Books, 1981).

5. Там же, стр. 152–153

6. Там же.

7. Russianoff, Why Do I Think I’m Nothing.

8. Dowling, The Cinderella Complex, 22.

9. Kathy Capell-Sowder, “On Being Addicted to the Addict: Co-Dependent Relationships,” in Co-Dependency, 23. См. тж. Stanton Peele and Archie Brodsky, Love and Addiction (New York: New American Library, 1975).

Глава 10

1. Nathaniel Branden, Honoring the Self: Personal Integrity and the Heroic Potentials of Human Nature (Boston: Houghton Mifflin Company, 1983), 53.

2. Theodore I. Rubin with Eleanor Rubin, Compassion and Self-Hate: An Alternative to Despair (New York: David McKay Company, 1975), 65.

3. Там же.

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1. Theodore I. Rubin with Eleanor Rubin, Compassion and Self-Hate: An Alternative to Despair (New York: David McKay Company, 1975); Nathaniel Branden, Honoring the Self: Personal Integrity and the Heroic Potentials of Human Nature (Boston: Houghton Mifflin Company, 1983).

2. Robert Subby and John Friel, “Co-Dependency: A Paradoxical Dependency,” in Co-Dependency, An Emerging Issue (Hollywood, FL: Health Communications, 1984), 40.

3. Rubin, Compassion.

4. Там же.

5. Branden, Honoring the Self.

6. Там же, стр. 76.

7. Wayne W. Dyer, Your Erroneous Zones (New York: Funk and Wagnalls, 1976).

8. Toby Rice Drews, Getting Them Sober (South Plainfield, NJ: Bridge Publishing, 1980), vol.1, xxi.

9. Branden, Honoring the Self, 1–4.

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1. Joseph L. Kellerman, A Guide for the Family of the Alcoholic (New York: Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, 1984), 8–9.

2. Janet Geringer Woititz, “Co-Dependency: The Insidious Invader of Intimacy,” in Co-Dependency, An Emerging Issue (Hollywood, FL: Health Communications, 1984), 55.

3. Там же, стр. 59.

4. Harold A. Swift and Terence Williams, Recovery for the Whole Family (Center City, MN: Hazelden, 1975).

5. Nathaniel Branden, Honoring the Self: Personal Integrity and the Heroic Potentials of Human Nature (Boston: Houghton Mifflin Company, 1983), 62–65.

6. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross, On Death and Dying (New York: MacMillan Publishing, 1969).

7. Melody Beattie, Denial (Center City, MN: Hazelden, 1986).

8. Claudia L. Jewett, Helping Children Cope with Separation and Loss (Harvard, MA: The Harvard Common Press, 1982), 29.

9. Там же, стр. 23, 29.

10. John Powell, Why Am I Afraid to Tell You Who I Am? (Allen, TX: Argus Communications, 1969), 116–17.

11. Kübler-Ross, On Death and Dying, 99–100.

12. Judi Hollis, Fat Is a Family Affair (San Francisco: Harper/Hazelden, 1986), 80.

13. Donald L. Anderson, Better Than Blessed (Wheaton, IL: Tyndale House Publishers, 1981), 11.

Глава 13

1. John Powell, Why Am I Afraid to Tell You Who I Am? (Allen, TX: Argus Communications, 1969), 155.

2. Jael Greenleaf, “Co-Alcoholic/Para-Alcoholic: Who’s Who and What’s the Difference?” in Co-Dependency, An Emerging Issue (Hollywood, FL: Health Communications, 1984), 9.

3. Scott Egleston; Powell, Why Am I Afraid; Toby Rice Drews, Getting Them Sober (South Plainfield, NJ: Bridge Publishing, 1980), vol. 1.

4. Nathaniel Branden, Honoring the Self: Personal Integrity and the Heroic Potentials of Human Nature (Boston: Houghton Mifflin Company, 1983).

5. Powell, Why Am I Afraid.

6. Там же.

7. Albert Ellis and Robert A. Harper, A New Guide to Rational Living (Hollywood, CA: Wilshire Book, 1975); William Backus and Marie Chapian, Telling Yourself the Truth (Minneapolis: Bethany Fellowship, 1980).

Глава 14

1. Janet Geringer Woititz, “The Co-Dependent Spouse: What Happens to You When Your Husband Is an Alcoholic,” in Co-Dependency, An Emerging Issue (Hollywood, FL: Health Communications, 1984), 90.

2. Gayle Rosellini and Mark Worden, Of Course You’re Angry (San Francisco: Harper/Hazelden, 1986).

3. К Ефесянам, 4:26.

4. Toby Rice Drews, Getting Them Sober (South Plainfield, NJ: Bridge Publishing, 1980), vol.1; Rosellini and Worden, Of Course You’re Angry; and Scott Egleston.

5. Frederick S. Perls, Gestalt Therapy Verbatim (New York: Bantam Books, 1969).

6. Claude M. Steiner, Scripts People Live (New York: Grove Press, 1979).

7. Rosellini and Worden, Of Course You’re Angry.

8. Woititz, “The Co-Dependent Spouse,” 83.

Глава 15

1. 2-е Тимофею, 1:7.

2. Aron Kahn, “Indecision Decidedly in Vogue,” St. Paul Pioneer Press and Dispatch (1 April 1986, sec. C).

3. Toby Rice Drews, Getting Them Sober (South Plainfield, NJ: Bridge Publishing, 1980), vol. 1.

4. Перифраз материала из издания Alcoholics Anonymous, 3d ed. “The Big Book” (New York: Alcoholics Anonymous World Services, 1976).

Глава 16

1. David J. Schwartz, The Magic of Thinking Big (New York: Cornerstone Library, 1959), 162–63.

1. Там же, стр. 163–164.

3. Там же, стр. 164.

4. Dennis Wholey, The Courage to Change (Boston: Houghton Mifflin Company, 1984), 39.

Глава 17

1. Toby Rice Drews, Getting Them Sober (South Plainfield, NJ: Bridge Publishing, 1980), vol. 1, 77–78.

2. Там же, стр. 76.

3. John Powell, Why Am I Afraid to Tell You Who I Am? (Allen, TX: Argus Communications, 1969), 12.

4. Там же, стр. 8.

5. Jean Baer, How to Be an Assertive (Not Aggressive) Woman in Life, in Love, and on the Job (New York: New American Library, 1976).

Глава 18

1. Al-Anon Family Groups, Al-Anon’s Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions (New York: Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, 1981), 131.

2. Jael Greenleaf, “Co-Alcoholic/Para-Alcoholic: Who’s Who and What’s the Difference?” in Co-Dependency, An Emerging Issue (Hollywood, FL: Health Communications, 1984), 15.

3. George E. Vaillant, The Natural History of Alcoholism (Cambridge, MA: Harvard University Press, 1983).

4. Уоррен В. рассказал эту историю в Миннеаполисе 23 августа 1985 года, позаимствовав ее у оратора Клэнси Имислунда.

5. Al-Anon Family Groups, Al-Anon: Is It for You? (New York: Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, 1983). Reprinted by permission of Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc.

6. Judi Hollis, Fat Is a Family Affair (San Francisco: Harper/Hazelden, 1986), 49–52.

Глава 19

1. Перефразированная цитата с поздравительной открытки и плаката, продававшихся сто лет назад; автор неизвестен.

2. Toby Rice Drews, Getting Them Sober (South Plainfield, NJ: Bridge Publishing, 1980), vol. 2, 52.

3. Penelope Russianoff, Why Do I Think I’m Nothing Without a Man? (New York: Bantam Books, 1982).

4. Kathy Capell-Sowder, “On Being Addicted to the Addict: Co-Dependent Relationships,” in Co-Dependency, An Emerging Issue (Hollywood, FL: Health Communications, 1984), 20–21.

5. Judi Hollis, Fat Is a Family Affair (San Francisco: Harper/Hazelden, 1986), 30–31.

6. Идеи, обсуждаемые в этом разделе, почерпнуты из нескольких статей из сборника Co-Dependency, An Emerging Issue (Hollywood, FL: Health Communications, 1984): Janet Geringer Woititz, “The Co-Dependent Spouse: What Happens to You When Your Husband Is an Alcoholic”; Gerald Shulman, “Sexuality and Recovery: Impact on the Recovering Couple”; Marilyn Mason, “Bodies and Beings: Sexuality Issues During Recovery for the Dependent and Co-Dependent”; and Janet Geringer Woititz, “Co-Dependency: The Insidious Invader of Intimacy.”

Глава 20

1. Abraham H. Maslow, ed., Motivation and Personality, 2d ed. (New York: Harper & Row, 1970); Benjamin Wolman, ed., International Encyclopedia of Psychiatry, Psychology, Psychoanalysis, & Neurology (New York: Aesculapius Publishers, 1977), vol. 7, 32–33.

2. Nathaniel Branden, Honoring the Self: Personal Integrity and the Heroic Potentials of Human Nature (Boston: Houghton Mifflin Company, 1983), 162.

3. Janet Geringer Woititz, “Co-Dependency: The Insidious Invader of Intimacy,” in Co-Dependency, An Emerging Issue (Hollywood, FL: Health Communications, 1984), 59.

Эпилог

1. Michael Schumacher, “Sharing the Laughter with Garrison Keillor,” Writer’s Digest (January 1986), 33.

Библиография

Книги

1. Alcoholics Anonymous World Services. Alcoholics Anonymous (“The Big Book”), 3d ed. New York: Alcoholics Anonymous World Services, 1976.

2. Al-Anon Family Groups.

• Al-Anon: Is It for You? New York: Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, 1983.

• Al-Anon’s Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions. New York: Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, 1981.

• Al-Anon Faces Alcoholism. New York: Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, 1977.

• One Day at a Time in Al-Anon. New York: Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, 1974.

• The Dilemma of the Alcoholic Marriage. New York: Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, 1971.

3. Anderson, Donald L. Better Than Blessed. Wheaton, IL: Tyndale House Publishers, 1981.

4. Backus, William, and Marie Chapian. Telling Yourself the Truth. Minneapolis: Bethany Fellowship, 1980.

5. Baer, Jean. How to Be an Assertive (Not Aggressive) Woman in Life, in Love, and on the Job. New York: New American Library, 1976.

6. Branden, Nathaniel. Honoring the Self: Personal Integrity and the Heroic Potentials of Human Nature. Boston: Houghton Mifflin Company, 1983.

7. DeRosis, Helen A., and Victoria Y. Pellegrino. The Book of Hope: How Women Can Overcome Depression. New York: MacMillan Publishing, 1976.

8. Dowling, Colette. The Cinderella Complex: Women’s Hidden Fear of Independence. New York: Pocket Books, 1981.

9. Drews, Toby Rice. Getting Them Sober, Volume 1. South Plainfield, NJ: Bridge Publishing, 1980.

• Getting Them Sober, Volume 2. South Plainfield, NJ: Bridge Publishing, 1983.

10. Dyer, Wayne W. Your Erroneous Zones. New York: Funk and Wagnalls, 1976.

11. Ellis, Albert, and Robert A. Harper. A New Guide to Rational Living. Hollywood, CA: Wilshire Books, 1975.

12. Fort, Joel. The Addicted Society: Pleasure-Seeking and Punishment Revisited. New York: Grove Press, 1981.

13. Hafen, Brent Q., with Kathryn J. Frandsen. The Crisis Intervention. Handbook. Englewood Cliffs, NJ: Prentice-Hall, 1982.

14. Hazelden. Day by Day. San Francisco: Harper/Hazelden, 1986. Twenty-Four Hours a Day. San Francisco: Harper/Hazelden, 1985.

15. Health Communications. Co-Dependency, An Emerging Issue. Hollywood, FL: Health Communications, 1984.

16. Hollis, Judi. Fat Is a Family Affair. San Francisco: Harper/Hazelden, 1986.

17. Hornik-Beer, Edith Lynn. A Teenager’s Guide to Living with an Alcoholic Parent. Center City, MN: Hazelden, 1984.

18. Jewett, Claudia L. Helping Children Cope with Separation and Loss. Harvard, MA: The Harvard Common Press, 1982.

19. Johnson, Lois Walfrid. Either Way, I Win: A Guide to Growth in the Power of Prayer. Minneapolis: Augsburg Publishing House, 1979.

20. Kimball, Bonnie-Jean. The Alcoholic Woman’s Mad, Mad World of Denial and Mind Games. Center City, MN: Hazelden, 1978.

21. Kübler-Ross, Elisabeth. On Death and Dying. New York: MacMillan Publishing, 1969.

22. Landorf, Joyce. Irregular People. Waco, TX: Word, 1982.

23. Lee, Wayne. Formulating and Reaching Goals. Champaign, IL: Research Press Company, 1978.

24. Maslow, Abraham H., ed. Motivation and Personality, 2d ed. New York: Harper & Row, 1970.

25. Maxwell, Ruth. The Booze Battle. New York: Ballantine Books, 1976.

26. McCabe, Thomas R. Victims No More. Center City, MN: Hazelden, 1978.

27. Perls, Frederick S. Gestalt Therapy Verbatim. New York: Bantam Books, 1969.

28. Pickens, Roy W., and Dace S. Svikis. Alcoholic Family Disorders: More Than Statistics. Center City, MN: Hazelden, 1985.

29. Powell, John S. Why Am I Afraid to Tell You Who I Am? Allen, TX: Argus Communications, 1969.

30. Restak, Richard M. The Self Seekers. Garden City, NY: Doubleday and Company, 1982.

31. Rosellini, Gayle, and Mark Worden. Of Course You’re Angry. San Francisco: Harper/Hazelden, 1986.

32. Rubin, Theodore I. Reconciliations: Inner Peace in an Age of Anxiety. New York: The Viking Press, 1980.

33. Rubin, Theodore I., with Eleanor Rubin. Compassion and Self-Hate: An Alternative to Despair. New York: David McKay Company, 1975.

34. Russianoff, Penelope. Why Do I Think I Am Nothing Without a Man? New York: Bantam Books, 1982.

35. Schwartz, David J. The Magic of Thinking Big. New York: Cornerstone Library, 1959.

36. Steiner, Claude M. Games Alcoholics Play: The Analysis of Life Scripts. New York: Grove Press, 1971.

• Healing Alcoholism. New York: Grove Press, 1979.

• Scripts People Live. New York: Grove Press, 1974.

• What Do You Say After You Say Hello? New York: Grove Press, 1972.

37. Valliant, George E. The Natural History of Alcoholism: Causes, Patterns and Paths to Recovery. Cambridge, MA: Harvard University Press, 1982.

38. Vine, Phyllis. Families in Pain: Children, Siblings, Spouses and Parents of the Mentally Ill Speak Out. New York: Pantheon Books, 1982.

39. Wallis, Charles L., ed. The Treasure Chest. New York: Harper & Row, 1965.

40. Wholey, Dennis. The Courage to Change. Boston: Houghton Mifflin Company, 1984.

41. Woititz, Janet Geringer. Adult Children of Alcoholics. Hollywood, FL: Health Communications, 1983.

42. Wolman, Benjamin B., ed. International Encyclopedia of Psychiatry, Psychology, Psychoanalysis & Neurology, vol. 7. New York: Aesculapius Publishers, 1977.

43. York, Phyllis and David, and Ted Wachtel. Toughlove. Garden City, NY: Doubleday and Company, 1982.

Буклеты

1. Beattie, Melody. Denial, Center City, MN: Hazelden, 1986.

2. Burgin, James E. Help for the Marriage Partner of an Alcoholic. Center City, MN: Hazelden, 1976.

3. Emotions Anonymous International Services. The Enormity of Emotional Illness: The Hope Emotions Anonymous Has to Offer. St. Paul, MN: Emotions Anonymous International Services, 1973.

4. H., Barbara. Untying the Knots: One Parent’s View. Center City, MN: Hazelden, 1984.

5. Harrison, Earl. Boozlebane on Alcoholism and the Family. Center City, MN: Hazelden, 1984.

6. Hazelden Educational Materials. Teen Drug Use: What Can Parents Do? Center City, MN: Hazelden. (Reprinted with permission of Department of Public Instruction, Bismarck, ND, Drug Abuse Education Act of 1970.)

• No Substitute for Love: Ideas for Family Living. Center City, MN: Hazelden. (Reprinted with permission of Special Action Office for Drug Abuse Prevention, Executive Office of the President, Washington, DC, in conjunction with the Drug Abuse Prevention Week in 1973.)

• Step Four: Guide to Fourth Step Inventory for the Spouse. Center City, MN: Hazelden, 1976.

• Learn about Families and Chemical Dependency. Center City, MN: Hazelden, 1985.

7. Kellerman, Joseph L. The Family and Alcoholism: A Move from Pathology to Process. Center City, MN: Hazelden, 1984.

• A Guide for the Family of the Alcoholic. New York: Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, 1984.

8. Nakken, Jane. Enabling Change: When Your Child Returns Home from Treatment. Center City, MN: Hazelden, 1985.

9. Schroeder, Melvin. Hope for Relationships. Center City, MN: Hazelden, 1980.

10. Scientific Affairs Committee of the Bay Area Physicians for Human Rights. Guidelines for AIDS Risk Reduction. San Francisco: The San Francisco AIDS Foundation, 1984.

11. Swift, Harold A., and Terence Williams. Recovery for the Whole Family. Center City, MN: Hazelden, 1975.

12. Timmerman, Nancy G. Step One for Family and Friends. Center City, MN: Hazelden, 1985.

• Step Two for Family and Friends. Center City, MN: Hazelden, 1985.

13. W., Carolyn. Detaching with Love. Center City, MN: Hazelden, 1984.

14. Williams, Terence. Free to Care: Therapy for the Whole Family of Concerned Persons. Center City, MN: Hazelden, 1975.

Статьи

1. Anderson, Eileen. “When Therapists Are Hooked on Power.” The Phoenix, vol. 5, no. 7, July 1985.

2. “Author’s Study Says CoAs Can’t Identify Their Needs.” The Phoenix (from Family Focus, published by the U.S. Journal of Drug and Alcohol Dependence), vol. 4, no. 11, November 1984.

3. Bartell, Jim. “Family Illness Needs Family Treatment, Experts Say.” The Phoenix, vol. 4, no. 11, November 1984.

4. Black, Claudia. “Parental Alcoholism Leaves Most Kids Without Information, Feelings, Hope.” The Phoenix, vol. 4, no. 11, November 1984.

5. Hamburg, Jay. “Student of Depression Sights a Silver Lining.” St. Paul Pioneer Press and Dispatch (Orlando Sentinel), 23 September 1985.

6. Jeffris, Maxine. “About the Word Co-Dependency.” The Phoenix, vol. 5, no. 7, July 1985.

7. Kahn, Aron. “Indecision Decidedly in Vogue.” St. Paul Pioneer Press and Dispatch, 1 April 1986.

8. Kalbrener, John. “We Better Believe That Our Children Are People, Says Children Are People.” The Phoenix, vol. 4, no. 11, November 1984.

9. LeShan, Eda. “Beware the Helpless.” Woman’s Day, 26 April 1983.

10. Ross, Walter S. “Stress: It’s Not Worth Dying For.” Reader’s Digest, January 1985, 76.

11. Schumacher, Michael. “Sharing the Laughter with Garrison Keillor.” Writer’s Digest, January 1986, 33.

12. Strick, Lisa Wilson. “What’s So Bad About Being So-So?” Reader’s Digest, August 1984, 78 (reprinted from Woman’s Day, 3 April 1984).

Разное

1. “Adult Children of Alcoholics,” handout, author unknown.

2. “Detachment,” handout written by anonymous Al-Anon members.

3. Jourard, Sidney, with Ardis Whitman. “The Fear That Cheats Us of Love,” handout.

4. Larsen, Earnie. “Co-Dependency Seminar,” Stillwater, MN, 1985.

5. Wright, Thomas. “Profile of a Professional Caretaker,” handout.

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